Having said that LOVE is really the most unfathomable theory in the universal. Recently, having surrounded by friends encountering break ups and being in loved. Gal friend of mine who have been constantly in love with this guy and at last got reciprocated with what she deserved. Yet another gal friend who was devoted to her bf but yet he did stuff that hurts her badly. Got to know another guy in school who loved his gf a lot yet initiate a break down due to individual's life expectation.
There seems to be no rules in a relationship. You might find this loving couple that seems indispensable today but realize their change of status to 'single" the very next day. All human have flaws, understand the 5 love language is essential, to express our love and to understand others - Words of affirmation, quality time, gifts, act of service and physical touch.
To me, Act of service and quality time is pretty important. I could feel loved when someone offer a service to me, be it a small one (perhaps just purely lip service) or hefty amount of help. On top of that, quality time is something that have to be run concurrently. Meaningful and enjoyable time spend with my loved one and friends is what I look forward most. Even just a cup of coffee over gossip or confession or a great gathering or crazy partly, you would find me pretty 'endu'!
Sorry for the longwinded sherry's theory but I believe you should know me slightly better by now =)
*Side track: Super looking forward to the other half of the year!! (I know its only the end of Feb but I just have this sudden excitement!) --- Revision of my pay in September, the final semester of my studies, a break away trip (crossing finger) , hopefully more commissions for september and last but no least - The starting year of 2010 to snowee SWITZERLAND!
XOXOX
*Wink*