Slight Changes

Don't really know what's got into me recently... It seems like there are lots of thing gonna happen or happening in this year. Life have been pretty stagnant in a way that I kinda of take it as part of my comfort zone and let it sink in the way as it is.

Having the chance to travel to Europe is really amazing! There is lots of things I would like to share and keep it as a written memories. However, after illustrated and repeated quite a few times to a number of friends, writing it in my blog seems to be a little redundant. I guess thats me... Perhaps I might do a little summary when i "suddenly" have a urge of posting, not forgetting the pictures as well =) Else.. it will be something (as a written memory) that I am proud to be participate in.. just like my US trip during my secondary days =)

This trip has definitely built and strengthen my independency and a little of my self confidence. Not so sure if its due to this fact, I was kinda of being notice by "someone".... To be honest, I'm really pretty reluctant to be under the lime light again... after two years plus... My confidence level was over thrown into the deep well when I'm being asked to go on a one to one outing. Suddenly, words like "brother", "younger" or "older" seems to be bubbling out from me - trying to draw clear lines between friendship and nothing more. Is this a verbal sign of self-defense? Or afraid to be hurt? I'm not sure for myself either. God... having the same direction and understanding of what "you" have planned should alway be a foundation in a couple to bond them together. However In times, what I expect and what I see seems to confuse me with the plans that you have.

Anyway, guess I will take a step at a time and see how things goes. Currently, I will try to act on the following Calling from "him" and things that I got To do:

(C) 1. Guard my heart and set my line of boundary for a pure heart.

(C) 2. Guide my brother to lead in a different "Foo" family habit

(T) 3. A change of job this year - Either an education sector or Marketing

(T) 4. A sudden reminder thru JK Bi bi - Take extra care of my mother, bring her for check up and spend more time with her,

Well... I shouldn't procrastinate it any longer...

Cheers! XO XO

Why do some people have higher sex driver?

Came across this forum about "love and relationship" when someone asked about if one has a high sex drive but still love her gf who do not like sex at all, is it worth to have a diff sex partner in order to maintain the relationship with the girl that he love dearly?

From a girl point of view its definitely, a NO NO answer. Its just totally unfair, going for a diff sex partner just to satisfy one's desire! But from the guys point of view (where its a norm that guys use a different "part" of their body to think rather than their brain), the relationship will definitely becomes stagnant and break off might be the end result...

But how do you named yourself as someone who is high sex drive? Is it a in-born thingy or just a personal desire / habit? I found an explanation and solution for those people (Men) who categorize themselves under this category...

There are numerous reasons to why ppl have high sex drive.. Example like: - long lasting hunger for a partner (being alone for a long period of time) - unhappy with partner's performance (applies to both genders) - porn addict - wants to try out all different pose learn from show.. - curious about why people around him/her keep discussing about sex making the inner desire explode - always horny thanks to numerous fetish and dirty thoughts in the mind >>To reduce your high sex drive, get to understand your inner self, your body needs, high sex drive is just a result of lack of love and understanding of your true self. P.S: It's not healthy to always have high sex drive as this will translate into stress for your partner having to cope with your needs so learn to reduce it gradually as for your partner not having any desire in sex, try talking more in-depth not about sex but rather into her doors and heart about views on her past relationship, upbringing and even sex education and knowledge, any negative experience and unpleasant stigma that she may have causing her to have near zero interest in sex. If that don't work, than it might be due to her not being too tensed up, muscles too hard, can't relax, offer a simple massage with clothes on over time to smooth her mood and feelings (no sex til she accept the flow of order first) just before sleeping and after waking up. if all the above still don't work, than ask her to play with herself and show it to you so u get to understand the way she likes it first so u get a understanding on what to do next.. Communication is a important part. The key is: to understand yourself and your partner from inside (heart) out and not only from the outside.

Extracted from Shopping lifestyle - Author "the_Fallen"

Interesting huh...

Cheers,

XO XO =P

The forsaken blog

I am back in blogging after... 7 months!! Opps! Realize I am really bad in blogging (or should I say lazy...).

Updates:

Dec - Got back my unexpected result! Scored 1 Distinction and 1 Credits for my last two papers. Officially, I'm a Bachelor graduate now!!

31 Dec - 01 Jan (New Year Eve and New Year) - Had a fun 2 day 1 night at batam with my secondary school gang. Hopefully, we will have another outing but I guess I will NOT be the organizer the next time round.

14 - 17 Feb (Chinese New Year) - Went visiting at Granny, Cat, JH and Cat's friend place. Gamble for 4 days straight and end up losing more than 80 bucks =( This year is not a good year to gamble I guess.

03 March 2010 - Sent my naughty brother off to China. He is really lucky to have this opportunity to do his exchange in China for 1.5 months. Why didn't my era have this options... I will definitely miss him... miss the times of him being bullied =P

Upcoming:

15 - 24 March - My Switzerland & Paris Trip!!! At last the trip that I have been waiting for. Initially, Irene and Michelle are on my top list who did agreed to travel with me but due to unforeseen factors and circumstances etc... both of them had given up the idea.I really thought for a while, should I go?? Friends are always my energizer! I hated so much to eat alone or even shop alone, never in my wildest imagination that I will go for an oversea trip alone... But YES, I'm going ALONE!

Had being planning for my itinerary nearly a month! It's really nervous wrecking, lots of issues and planing needed to be done. In addition, I'm really bad at navigation and map reading... really hope I can survive and do enjoy myself. This is really a good opportunity for me to learn being independent, widen my horizon and totally rely on GOD! Hopefully, all the negative experience or tales that was fed to me would NOT happen in this upcoming trip.

Will do my updating as time goes...

Cheers!

A Character Change

Had a very frank conversation with Jiao yesterday that lead me to an emotional fluctuation. Didn't realize that my character is a tripping stone, a barrier, a hinderance in my growth. Being sort of a well-protected and complacent since I was an adolescence till young adult, it have crave me into who I am now. It really makes me wonder, didn't I have plan enough? should I leave my comfort zone? why am I easily being affected by my surrounding? is being happy-go-lucky a mistake??

I guess human need to grow in every stage of life and it is a must to GROW and LEARN, be it happy or sad, good times or bad times. 

God had once again, shaken my thoughts. 

Awaiting to see a brand new Sherry...

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Lazy...again...

AHHHHHHHHHHHH!

Lazy bug stuck on me again... There are quite a number of event that happened for the past few months - Taiwan trip, Wendy's wedding, SEG corporate dinner, Pris and yi's birthday dinner etc . Anyway, should anyone be interested to know what's going on during the event, view my facebook for details ;)

Hmm...Im one leg stepping into 1/4 century of age. Dear lord, what will be my next path?

I hereby, wish Sherry a lovely happy B day and a smooth sailing road in her life. May god be part of her life in every little things that crosses her path.

Cheers ^^

Chill up time

Its end of May soon... Will be starting the next half of the year le... 

So... what have I achieved? *Sigh*

Anyway, I am quite surprised that I have more than 3 entry for this month! 

1. I guess cause I know there is reader? 

2. My life becoming more interesting? 

3. I am no longer a lazy bug??

4. I have too much free time to blog?

Whatever the case is, I am starting to get the hang of blogging =)

Met up with Denise last Friday for a chill up session after prayer meeting. She was so amazed by what my samsung phone could do that we spent our whole chill up session taking pictures in all sort of angles, expression and layout!

I shall let the photos describes our flaky moments ^^

The tall vs Short. Guess which is mine?

Our beef steak burger *Yummy*

Add on to its savory look !

Me and Dennis ^^

The right way to taste a  good old latte!

Yum yum^^

"The woman with great dreams" - photographed by Ms Sherry

Trying to act cute and blur@@

Shots of our life story... 1, 2, 3, 4...

Moments of Xi Nu Ai Le

Happy ladies!

Last photo of the day and home sweet home =)

Cheers ^8^ ^8^ ^8^

Overnight Cycling Event

Went for an amazing night cycling event on 15 May 09. It was a tiring yet fun time.

We reached around 9pm for registration, pick our bike and started our journey at 10.10pm. Total there are around 70 odd people joined the event! Tried changing my bike twice but still end up having the squeaky hand break. 

I was a little shocked when I got hold of our route trip map:

Sun Plaza Park (Tampines) -> Changi Village -> East Coast Park -> Marina Baarage -> Sun Plaza Park.

It was really my limit, at a certain point, I really felt that I don have anymore energy to continue. However, guess what had motivated me to push myself - Suave cyclist? Good Food? Nea, it's seeing one of the organizer's shirt printout "Breaking the limit". Whenever I see those word its suddenly gave me a boaster of energy to continue till the very end. Amazing how words can turn into wonder! 

One of our cycling kaki fall and injured herself when we were on our way to the second pit stop (East Coast Park) but still she determine to continue till Marine Baarage (even though the event medic  asked her to rest and call it a day). I'm  impress with her determination. 

In the midst of the journey to our 3rd stop point, never would I expect that we got to cycle on Nicole highway =P (I know its illegal but who cares at 3am!)  You could really take your time to appreciate the scenery of our Singapore central business district. I could see the flyer from a miniature figuring to directly beneath me. Regret that I didn't bring my camera out!

To me honest, my weakest point thru the journey was the HUGE Kembagan slope. I really start  "chionging" quite a distance with every ounce of energy that I could generate but end up still stuck at in the middle of the hill =( Got to get down and push me bike up. BUT what frustrate me most was, there was this girl who is fatter - okie bigger size than me could cycle all the way up the slope. I bet she is laughing at me LOL. 

Exactly 6am we reached back to our starting point and I am so glad that I have completed =) (With pain butts and thigh)

After which, me, pris and Jia hao went to have a good Mac breakfast and Jia hao send us back to end our more than 24hrs sleepless day.  

I will definitely go for such event again!!

Starting of our journey...

 

See the no. of cyclist behind me

Dislike the safely helmet =(

The gal who got injured yet had strong determination!

Pris's schoolmate who completed the track too!

Pris and the unsafely JH^^

End our day with great achievement =)

Cheers ^O^ ^O^ ^O^