Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Why do some people have higher sex driver?

Came across this forum about "love and relationship" when someone asked about if one has a high sex drive but still love her gf who do not like sex at all, is it worth to have a diff sex partner in order to maintain the relationship with the girl that he love dearly?

From a girl point of view its definitely, a NO NO answer. Its just totally unfair, going for a diff sex partner just to satisfy one's desire! But from the guys point of view (where its a norm that guys use a different "part" of their body to think rather than their brain), the relationship will definitely becomes stagnant and break off might be the end result...

But how do you named yourself as someone who is high sex drive? Is it a in-born thingy or just a personal desire / habit? I found an explanation and solution for those people (Men) who categorize themselves under this category...

There are numerous reasons to why ppl have high sex drive..

Example like:

- long lasting hunger for a partner (being alone for a long period of time)

- unhappy with partner's performance (applies to both genders)

- porn addict - wants to try out all different pose learn from show..

- curious about why people around him/her keep discussing about sex making the inner desire explode

- always horny thanks to numerous fetish and dirty thoughts in the mind

>>To reduce your high sex drive, get to understand your inner self, your body needs, high sex drive is just a result of lack of love and understanding of your true self.

P.S: It's not healthy to always have high sex drive as this will translate into stress for your partner having to cope with your needs so learn to reduce it gradually

as for your partner not having any desire in sex, try talking more in-depth not about sex but rather into her doors and heart about views on her past relationship, upbringing and even sex education and knowledge, any negative experience and unpleasant stigma that she may have causing her to have near zero interest in sex.

If that don't work, than it might be due to her not being too tensed up, muscles too hard, can't relax, offer a simple massage with clothes on over time to smooth her mood and feelings (no sex til she accept the flow of order first) just before sleeping and after waking up.

if all the above still don't work, than ask her to play with herself and show it to you so u get to understand the way she likes it first so u get a understanding on what to do next..

Communication is a important part.

The key is: to understand yourself and your partner from inside (heart) out and not only from the outside.
Extracted from Shopping lifestyle - Author "the_Fallen"

Interesting huh...

Cheers,
XO XO =P


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